Confidence & Romance Scams Explained

Confidence or romance scams happen when someone pretends to be a friend or romantic partner to gain your trust, then asks for money or personal information.

Scammers often meet you online, like on dating sites or social media, and build a relationship over weeks or months. They might say they love you or share fake stories to seem genuine, but their goal is to trick you.

For example, someone you meet online might say they need $500 for a medical emergency or to visit you. You send the money, but they vanish. Seniors are targeted because scammers know they may be lonely or seeking companionship.

Tips to Identify Confidence/Romance Scams

Be Cautious Online: Be skeptical of people you meet on dating sites or social media, especially if they avoid meeting in person or on video calls.

Watch for Sob Stories: Scammers often claim emergencies, like hospital bills or travel costs, to ask for money. Don’t send cash.

Never Share Personal Info: Don’t give out bank details, Social Security numbers, or passwords, no matter how close you feel to them.

Check Their Profile: Search their name or photo online. Scammers often use fake pictures stolen from other profiles.

Talk to Family: Share details about new online friends with a trusted family member or friend to get their opinion.

Trust Your Gut: If they push for money or seem too perfect, step back. Real relationships don’t involve urgent cash requests.